Wednesday, May 03, 2006

You mean I just don't show up and look pretty?

Moving Cam on Friday is going to be fun.
Wrangling bridesmaids isn't.
Unfortunately it has become apparent to me that my peers really have no clue what it means to be part of a wedding party. I can understand that. All but one of the girls has been in a wedding before.
I remember when I was doing my stint as a bridesmaid all the things I had to do. Right down to researching what the expectations are on my own so I knew what to do.
I feel a little saddened that my friends are, well, a little absent. *sigh*
Thankfully my sister is up to the task as maid of honour. She's pretty keyed about all the tedious little duties that need to be preformed.
I guess the wedding plans have gotten to the point were there are little jobs to be done each day. It's this ever present entity that is trying to take over my life. I keep fighting it off so I can stay balanced. ( the last thing I need is to turn into a Bridezilla myself!) (can I just say that invitations are ridiculous! Good grief how expensive can a piece of paper with words on it be? I've gotten books for cheaper!)
I know things are going to work out. I just wish that I had a little more support. Even if my bridesmaids would make the effort to make sure their dresses fit....After all I don't have to wear them. They do.

hmmm I think I'm grumpy. I'll have to fix that. No more complaining for me! I'll be accentuating the positive for the rest of the day. Either that or hit the chocolate?

3 Comments:

Blogger Rockin' it up said...

hence the reason I kept just family as my bridesmaids. It worked well and I bought the dresses because I knew what size they were. All done! Hopefully your situation gets worked out soon. I know it can be tedious dealing with people that aren't really around. Love you!

3:02 PM  
Blogger MOLLY said...

CHOCOLATE! CHOCOLATE!
i hope your bridesmaids kick it up a notch, my goodness. what is the date of your wedding?

1:51 PM  
Blogger CreativeBarbie said...

Getting mini caught up on your life. I am excited that you will be in the area. We will have to hang out since i will have no boyfriend up here and I currently have next to no social life apart from him.
I hope your wedding is wonderful and amazing. I'm praying for you and i'll make sure to add to the list your brides maids and stress.

always your friend

4:39 PM  

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